在2024年9月13日，我有幸与AI May舞台剧创作人 Amy Chien-Yu Wang 合作，在Zoom直播平台开展了一场主题为“探讨爱的方式”的亲子讲座。此次讲座也提供了YouTube回放，方便错过的朋友进行观看。
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在传统的华人文化中，爱的表达方式往往带有无意识的伤害。父母们可能出于爱心采取一些行为，却不自觉地给孩子带来情感上的伤痛。这种现象就像是一个代代相传的精神健康贷款账户，情感创伤不断传递下去，而受害者往往未能意识到其存在。
在本次讲座中，我们深入探讨了这种情感创伤常常未被察觉，如何影响下一代的心理健康。我们希望通过认识这些模式，并在我们这一代进行疗愈，能够开始清偿这个“精神健康贷款”，打破这种代际传递的伤痛。
我们致力于提高大家的意识，并提供疗愈的工具和方法，让父母与孩子之间的爱成为成长、理解和连接的源泉，而不是无意识的伤害。
On 13th September 2024, I had the privilege of collaborating with Amy Chien-Yu Wang, the creator of the AI May Theatre Production, in a Zoom webinar titled "Exploring Love in Parenting". The session was also available for playback on YouTube for those who could not attend live.
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In traditional Chinese culture, love is often expressed in ways that can unintentionally harm relationships. Parents may act out of love but sometimes inadvertently cause emotional pain to their children, not realizing the impact. This phenomenon can be likened to a generational mental health debt, where emotional wounds are passed down through the generations.
In this webinar, we discussed how these emotional traumas often go unrecognized, and how they can affect the well-being of the next generation. Our hope is that by recognizing these patterns and focusing on healing in our generation, we can begin to pay off this mental health debt and break the cycle for future generations.
We are committed to creating awareness and providing tools for healing, so that love in parenting can truly be a source of growth, understanding, and connection, rather than causing harm.